6 Extra Options to Find Candidates for Your Threesome

People send me emails all the time asking me where my hubby and I meet

our candidates. My answer to that question is: E-V-E-R-Y-W-H-E-R-E.

Both of us are really naughty, so we are always flirting for possible candidates.

However, I know we have years of experience ahead of you so what I decided to

do was provide you with a few  tips where you can get started:

1. Internet                    

The Internet is a great tool to find candidates for your threesome.

There are loads of sites where you can either place ads or answer to ads.

Most of them require a monthly membership, but it’s worth it.

Here are a few tips on how you can start finding candidates on the net

and get immediate response: Find groups who have similar interests as you.

The key words are bisexual rings or groups. Go to www.msn.com, www.yahoo.com,

www.icq.com  or www.google.com and look for groups.

An internet group is a community of people who want to

share their same interests and meet like minded people. In my experience people

 who are open enough to talk about sexuality are more interested in other forms of

openness, or at least able to hear your desires with respect. So groups, clubs, chat

rooms and internet websites related to sexuality, sexual minorities, group sex and

sex education might be good places to find kindred spirits.

Recently I found a very interesting source of candidates.

For a yearly fee, you can connect with people who have  a web cam.

This is a great advantage over a chat room. Chat rooms offer the anonymity

 of not being able to see the other person so you’ll frequently bump into

individuals who pretend to be something they’re not.

Specifically men like to portray themselves as women for some reason.

When I’m not sure if I’m really chatting with a woman I ask female types of

questions that normally a male wouldn’t be able to answer.

On this website that won’t happen because you’ll actually meet the

person through the web cam. Check it out for yourself: www.icu2.com;

it’s the only reliable video chat site I know of. The only down side is that it’s

heavily populated by gay men, so I recommend that if you want to search as

a couple for a candidate, you search in the gay women channel. This is where

secretly most bisexual females communicate!

But My best finding so far to find women willing to have "no strings attached sex

is www.ashleymadisonblog.com

2. Seminars  

Other places to find candidates are workshops, seminar and gatherings that

have to do with human sexuality or intimacy. Tantra retreats or Swinger conventions

 are good options. These two websites will provide you with plenty of information

of what’s happening in the “openly sexual scene.”

http://www.lifestyles-convention.com

http://www.drsusanblock.com/sexinreview/index.html

3. Clothes Optional Holidays  

Another option to find a candidate for a is going on a “clothes optional”

holiday. Naturists are usually open minded individuals, sometimes involved in the

swingers lifestyle. There are a few resorts in the world that cater specifically

to people open for sexual play. The most famous ones are “Hedonism I, II & III”

in Jamaica. In these types of resorts you’ll find like minded people who easily

might

be open for a threesome. Below are a couple of websites that provide you with a

lot of information when planning this type of holiday:

http://www.nudetravelguide.com/

http://playcouples-travel.com/

http://www.cat69.com/desires.html

4. Seducing Friends  

Why not seduce a friend? I’m sure you’ve got some friends that you wouldn’t

mind having a with, right? What’s stopping you from seducing a

good friend? That’s too scary? Well, how about seducing a friend you just met;

in other words, how about seducing a nice stranger?

5. Swinger Clubs  

Another possibility is to go to a Swingers Club. Here it shouldn’t be too

hard to find candidates that will be happy to help fulfill your fantasy.

My husband and I go to Swing Clubs all the time. I find it a relaxed

and easy way to meet new and likeminded people.

Our Favourite club is in Holland and is called Fun 4 two, you can

have a look at www.fun4two.nl. In chapter 13 on my

Step by Step Thyreesome Book I explain you everything about swinging.

6. Great “Hunting” & Holiday Places  

To this day, hunters in Africa look for watering holes because this is where

the animals they’re trying to hunt go to drink water. This makes hunting a lot easier.

Believe it or not, there are such “hunting places” to easily arrange your

and enjoy a really nice holiday outside of Africa too! One of these places is called Ibiza.

This tiny island is part of Spain. Ibiza is the world’s “party capital” and is full of nudist

beaches and resorts.

Another “hunting place” is Cap d’Agd, south west of Montpellier in France.

This French Riviera resort is known around the world as the “naked city.”

Only about 700 km’s south of Paris, you’ll find a “naturist paradise.”

Just imagine every summer over 40,000 visitors enjoy this beautiful spot.

Throughout Cap d’Agd you can be naked, in fact everyone is naked.

In this resort night life offers very interesting possibilities.

Last but not the least there’s Ios and Mykonos in Greece. These two islands in the

Aegean Sea are well known for their bisexual activity. Although Mykonos is a predominantly

 gay island, there’s also an abundance of lesbian and bisexual women. And Ios is a tiny

island where party is well known to last until late hours in the morning. Some people say

that there is so much going on at night that sometimes the island shakes!

You can find more about Ibiza in:

 http://www.ibiza-spotlight.com/

You can find more about Ios in: http://www.iosgreece.com

You can find more about Mykonos in: http://www.mykonosgreece.com/

You can find more about Cap d´Agd 

 http://www.cap-d-agde.com/

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