A common beginner’s mistake during a threesome session is what I call the

“What’s the rush” syndrome. After the long wait most men are so excited

about having two girls in their bed that they lose perspective...

They feel they’re the “directors” and insist on showing the way of the action,

quickly taking the girls from one act or position to the next in attempt to experience

"every aspect" of his fantasy in one single session. Mind you, this is very short-sighted

for many reasons…Guys, you should keep the following points in mind:

It’s silly to try everything at once. A is not a Smorgasbord;

it’s a seven-course meal. You have to savor each course to the fullest

and you’ll enjoy it more that way than trying to fill your plate with a little

bit of this and a little bit of that.

Bear in mind that your invited friend can have a man any time she wants one.

She didn’t come for a penis, (sorry guys, that’s just the way it is) she also came

for the pussy. No, I’m not saying that she wants to have the pussy. However

highly likely she is curious about experimenting with a female and a

gives her a safe and protected environment without having to think that her

“lesbian” desires are wrong. If the man is dominantly directing the flow, the

experience will become more of a pain than a pleasure.

The man should allow himself to learn about how to really please a woman.

 Make sure that you allow the women to exercise their own pace and technique

 or intuition. Watch them kiss, touch and speak to each other. Women make

 love to each other how they WISH men would make love to them. Without the

 man interposing his own needs, he can learn what women really want.

Your new friend can find a new couple much easier than you can recruit

another woman. Allow her to do as she pleases and give her whatever she

wants. If you try to impose your agenda on her pleasure, her search for paradise

 certainly will take her elsewhere.

The evening will progress slower and will be more fun if the man doesn’t

 attempt to become the recreational organizer of the evening. The man

should guide the women to each other, watch more than participate, give

 more than take, learn more than teach. This is the secret that will make him

be appreciated by the women and that will reward him with more and more

 threesomes.

 The Most Important Ingredient for Success

You

need to take into consideration that a woman can get a “wham-bam-thank-you-Ma’am”

 anytime she feels like it. She doesn’t need you for that. What she’ll always appreciate

is the slow, tender love she is missing somewhere else.

Her main attraction to a may be possibility of having the soft tender

attention she has always dreamt of. The shy giggles; the long, lingering kisses;

the soft, tender touches; the gentle, probing investigation of unexplored spaces;

the tranquil discovery of unimagined new pleasures; and the slow, building stimulation

of a real seduction.

My advice is to follow the female pace. Remember your friend didn’t join

 you for a quickie. The best method to make her come back is a long,

candle-lit, romantic evening with lots of sweet nothings, dabbling caresses,

 prolonged kisses, relaxed cuddling and warm, all-accepting shared love (3).

  One of the reasons females fantasize about other women is because of the

soft tender feelings they know females are able to provide. An FFM threesome

 is the perfect opportunity for her to experience those feelings without feeling

uncomfortable about the fact that she’s involved in “lesbian” behavior.

As I mentioned earlier, most women are bi-curious. If you provide the possibility

of a non threatening experience, where she can explore the soft and tender touch

of another woman and the warmth and strength of a man, she’ll be delighted.

Once and for all: the real secret for successful FFM is to focus on your

friend, not on your own pleasure. Your pleasure is a by-product of providing pleasure

to your friend.

An FFM will always be more enjoyable when seen as a selfless act

of providing pleasure to the invited friend. I’ve found that this type of behavior

also influences your love making as a couple. Because your husband or steady

partner, being aware of how to deal with two women, he also learns how to deal

 better with his own woman while you’re just by yourselves!

 hope you know by know how to behave during a threesome. Follow my

advice and i will ensure you lots of nights of ecstasy and pleasure.

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